"Along military lines!" says Marilyn Flynn, who has belonged to a reading group in Nottingham for two years. She's joking but her group do stay focused on the book under discussion (most recent book: Charlotte Gray by Sebastian Faulks). "We're a big group - twelve of us usually - so it's tempting if you haven't yet had a chance to give your opinion to start talking to the people nearest to you. But we discourage that - it's important we respect whoever is speaking to the whole group. Even if they are blathering on, as we all do sometimes."
Marilyn's group - an all-female mix of teachers, secretaries, full-time mothers, a librarian, a banker and a fitness instructor - put aside fifteen minutes at the start of each meeting "to catch up on gossip". Then they focus on the book under discussion. "And when we've finished we go back to the gossip!"
Usually, of a reading group take it in turn to nominate a book. The person who has nominated this month's book might then introduce it by saying why she chose it. If she can get the information (from Saturday and Sunday newspaper book sections perhaps) she might talk a little about the author. That same person might lead the discussion, perhaps by having prepared five or six points to raise (see below What Do We Talk About?).
"You have to be careful of other people's feelings in discussion," Marilyn says, "especially if you hate a book that means a lot to the person who chose it. I persuaded everybody to 'go back in time' and read Lawrence Durrell's Alexandria Quartet, which I loved when I read it as a student and which has a special place in my heart. A couple of people really tore into it, especially the first book Justine, for being pretentious. I was really upset!"