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Drowned sailor's memorial bench 'a place to reflect'

Angela Ferguson
BBC News, Merseyside
RNLI Two sisters smile as they sit on a carved wooden bench. The sister on the right has her hand placed on the hand of her sister. Two carved owls can be seen at either end of the bench. A plaque can also be seen on the bench.RNLI
Hayden Griffiths's family, including his sisters Megan and Brogan, commissioned the bench

A memorial bench honouring a drowned sailor has been unveiled outside one of the RNLI lifeboat stations involved in the search for him, with a plaque urging people to "respect nature" and "stay safe".

Haydn Griffiths, who had been selected to train with the GB sailing team, died off New Brighton, Wirral, aged 23, in July 2022, despite being a strong swimmer.

His family commissioned the bench, which features two carved owls inspired by his love of nature, and said they hoped people could sit there and reflect on his story and share water safety messages.

It has been placed outside the RNLI lifeboat station in Hoylake, Wirral.

Volunteer lifeboat crews from Hoylake, New Brighton and West Kirby were part of the search for Mr Griffiths.

His sisters Megan and Brogan, from Wigan, added a plaque which reads: "Your life was a blessing, your memory is a treasure. Take a deep breath, relax and enjoy the sunset. Respect nature and stay safe. #staysafeforhaydn."

They launched the Stay Safe for Haydn water safety campaign following his death and have been working alongside the RNLI.

Megan Griffiths said her family was "incredibly grateful" to the RNLI crews who tried to find her brother.

"To now have a special memory bench for Haydn, overlooking the sea at Hoylake RNLI feels very special, not only for our family, but for all those who losing Haydn has affected," she said.

Handout Haydn Griffiths smiles in this selfie, with the sea behind him and water seen on his face. He has blue eyes and short light brown hair and is wearing a gold chain. Handout
Haydn Griffiths "loved nature and the sea" and his family felt the bench in Hoylake was a fitting memorial

She said she hoped it would become "a place where people can pause, take in the view, breathe the fresh sea air and reflect - a peaceful spot for crew and visitors alike to sit, Haydn's story and share water safety messages that could one day save a life".

Brogan Griffiths said she would bring her two sons to the bench, adding: "It's in a beautiful location where we will be able to talk about Uncle Haydn, educate them on water safety and keeping safe at the beach whilst also visiting our friends at the RNLI."

Howie Owen, Hoylake RNLI Coxswain, said it was a "privilege" to host Mr Griffiths' memorial bench.

"We're so grateful for everything his family have done to raise awareness around water safety and the lifesaving work of the RNLI."

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